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7.23.2013

How to be a Tourist


For the past 6 days I have been in the lovely city of Barcelona.  It’s crazy to think that I’m visiting this amazing place for a fourth time, but there’s something about the region of Catalunya that I find so attractive.   Living in New York City can be intoxicating, but sometimes you need a moment to rewind and see how others live.  The quality of life in the area of Spain is so wonderful and that is definitely emulated in the Agusti Vallejo family.

My “Spanish family,” as I call them, always takes me in as one of their own.  Surrounded by friends and family, I am always sure to have a wonderful experience when visiting.

This past weekend I went to their beach residence in Sant Pol, just a 45 minute drive from Barcelona.  As I was packing for the beach rendezvous, I discovered a very severe problem.  I had no camera charger.

I ransacked my small gathering of clothing  and supplies for my month-long trip, but no charger.  Flustered and embarrassed I started to try to figure out what to do next.  I needed a camera.  No pictures in Africa with the kids just seemed unimaginable and surely not an option.

On the drive to Sant Pol I decided to email a friend coming to Rwanda to try to find a universal charger, but I still faced quite a predicament…  I only had 1 battery for the next week in Spain.  I had to choose what moments were worth capturing versus wasting battery life on unimportant ventures.

Saturday came and went.  I got to spend some time with the lovely Te Perez, a Simonson teacher, and her family on the beach.  Anna Agusti and I talked on and on about her new choreography projects, the human body, and more.  I watched Joan, Anna’s son, play a hockey/futbol game.  I saw PT’s rowboat.  I drank a Clara with friends as the sun set and the moon rose.

I didn’t take a single picture.

I realized that I didn’t need to.  The memories were appreciated on a much deeper level.  I wasn’t hiding behind a camera lens.

As I was rearranging my backpack for the ride home, I found my charger in the bottom of my bag.  As the emotions of embarrassment and relief came flooding in, I also gathered a new understanding of how to best use my photographic tool.

Are you a tourist or a visitor?  That is my question to you.

As I walk through the touristic locations in Barcelona, I now see that too many people miss the important moments and struggle to capture them forever in a stationary image.  Some moments are not to be frozen as tangible photo paper.  Some moments are to be entirely enjoyed.

I think that if four years ago I’d come to Spain with the preconceived notion to solely be a tourist, I wouldn’t have such amazing connections in Catalunya now.  I didn’t merely attempt to obtain evidence that I’d visited Spain, but rather I chose to create relationships and maintain friendships.

Next time you venture somewhere near or far I challenge you to leave with more than pictures. 

Until next time,
Chelsea